What we have here

Is a failure to communicate.

Apparently, the plans I make are meant to be invalid because I didn't make them with the consent of the family.
My family doesn't make plans together, so I don't know what this nonsense is about trying to scapegoat me as the source of their problems, for all they say about 'not blaming' me or 'being angry'.
It just isn't right to be treated as though I'm incompetent. I'm not the one who failed to make plans until the day before they were meant to be acted upon.
Please. Like I really wanted to go anywhere with you anyway.
Tosh.
I did feel like I did better though. I didn't get severely angry like I did the other morning when I woke up to go visit the grandparents who don't even call to wish me happy birthday, and my car was gone. Mother took it without even any notice. She couldn't move the cars to reach hers, and took mine instead... Maybe it was a good reason. I'm not sure. It just didn't seem right.
My mom is very distracted by working on her doctorate. I get that it's difficult.
But shit, we're supposed to be a family and with how she's been acting as of late, taking care of the family seems to be last on her mind really.
That's fine. Get a divorce and get out. You'll be happier I'm sure.
Maybe it'll be better for the rest of us too.

You know, it's true what they say:
Nothing Could be Finer, than to be in Carolina.
So long as you're only dreaming, or in a coma.